As a Black woman in Italy, you know by now that finding a salon that caters to our unique texture is no easy feat. While we thank God for innovation and the sisters who have opened salons in big cities, they are still like gems—hard to find in residential or urban areas. Most of us are still lacking the necessary care we deserve.
This guide comes from a woman who has lived in Italy for 10 years now. My perspective has changed since I first published this in 2017. For eight of those ten years, I have cared for my hair myself because I wanted the perfect person to touch my crown. Here is the updated routine that has helped my 4C hair blossom in the Italian climate.
The Strategic Wash Day Routine
I wash my hair once a week. It is a non-negotiable process that has helped me retain length and health:
- Thorough Rinse: I start by rinsing thoroughly with lukewarm water to remove product buildup.
- Double Shampoo: I use any good shampoo to clean the scalp twice.
- Condition & Detangle: I apply conditioner and let it sit for the required time. I detangle while the conditioner is still in the hair.
- The Temperature Secret: I rinse with warm water first, but I finish with cold water. This is crucial as it closes the hair follicles and sets the moisture.
- No Towels: Never use a tough towel. Use an old cotton T-shirt to avoid ripping the fragile strands.
My "Product Prostitute" Warning
I don't care much about the products I wash out (shampoo/rinse-out conditioner), but I am very particular about leave-in products. Jumping from one brand to another—being a "product prostitute"—can damage your hair. Find a stable leave-in moisturizer and heat protector that works and stick with it!
Painless Braid Takedowns
We've all seen that black or white residue at the roots when taking down braids. Instead of dragging a comb through it and causing breakage, I apply oil to the roots and let it sit for a minute. The buildup dissolves, and the hair falls away easily without snapping.
Hydrate Before You Moisturize
4C hair is naturally dry and struggles to lock in moisture. I have learned a vital extra step: Hydrate first, then seal. I spray my hair with water (hydration) before applying my oil or cream (moisturizer). Without that water base, you are just greasing dry hair.
The "Slip Gel" Revolution
For a long time, I hated detangling because my hair is tough and it felt like I was just breaking it. Now, I follow a tip from my sisters on the internet: I use a detangling/slip gel before I even start the wash process. This makes the comb glide through and has drastically improved my length retention.
Protective Styling & Heat
I am now at a place where I mostly style my hair myself, avoiding excessive heat. According to dermatological research, low-manipulation styles are the only way to truly protect the ends from environmental damage in drier climates like Italy.
Building a routine takes time, but being constant with your "hair day" will leave your crown beautifully fresh. Treat your hair with care—it is your glory!

4 Comments
Me personally i belive every black women should be on natural hair ...becos apply chemical on our hair can later lead to some unwanted illnesses for example cancer and to add to it our natural black hair is more beautiful...its unique and its our identification as an african woman
ReplyDeleteThank, I really appreciate your comments
DeleteI really do like d fact dat u are educating black women on how to takecare of there hair...d love u have for black woman and africans really shows ...thank u very much for inspiring me ...ur a role model to emulate......am beginning to fall in love with ur write ups and u as a person and i promise to always write ur write ups to educate myself more...thank u 😘
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